The sacred formula of positivism: love as a principle, the order as a foundation, and progress as a goal.
Being friendly and positive will grant you with unexpected friendships and leave an amazing feeling in your soul.
Being negative and talking bad about someone will only throw you deeper in the hole that made you act like this at first.
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